Beware! Burnout Ahead

“Writing is not everything,” says Lisa Shearin in Writer Magazine. “And if you want longevity in this business, play isn’t just important–it’s critical. We get so intensely focused on having achieved the dream and working so hard to keep the dream going, that we’re blind to the signs that if we keep going down that road at a fast pace, that dream could quickly turn into a nightmare.”

Recipe for Burnout

I was very glad to read her opinion piece–and I wish that message was published more often. I wish someone had said it to me years ago. Having a healthy drive is good, but letting yourself be driven–by others or your own inner critic or even your perceived budget needs–will eventually ruin the joy you originally brought to your writing.

“Dreams are meant to be savored and enjoyed,” Shearin says. “You do have to work hard, but sometimes, the work can wait.”

Too Late

Great advice, but what if you’re already burned out? What if–from overwork, juggling too many jobs and family members, a major loss, or chronic illness–your ideas have dried up? I’ve been there twice (previously) in my writing life, and it was a scary place to be.

Peggy Simson Curry spoke about this in a Writer Magazine archive article first published in 1967. She detailed the process she followed to “slowly work [her] way back to writing” and discover what had killed her creative urge in the first place.

Face the Fear

I think most writers would agree with Peggy that fear is at the basis of being unable to write–fear that a writer can’t write anything worth publishing. Burned out writers constantly think of writing something that will sell

“This insidious thinking,” Curry says, “persuades the writer to question every story idea that comes to him. He no longer becomes excited with glimpses of theme, characters, setting, threads of plot. He can only ask desperately, ‘But who will want it?’”

Healing Choices

Among other suggestions, this writer said it was very important to deliberately get outside, away from the writing, and just enjoy the world around you. In other words, play.

Coming out of burnout can be done, but it often takes methodical, small daily disciplines to do it. For me lately, it’s been watering the tiny vegetable garden my granddaughters helped plant and walking to a nearby pond to watch the turtles (doing nothing) and walk back. Earlier, when my eyesight was better at night, I stitched small quilted wall hangings, and that finally unclogged my creativity. Things that help will be different for each writer. 

I feel the burnout lifting lately. I still tire more quickly, but a little trip to the pond and back seems to revive me and restore that “want to” so important in writing stories. This time, I am determined to keep up the routine, even when I feel better, and avoid the burnout path in the future. It takes less time–and is more FUN–to do these routines when you already feel well than to do twice as much to regain your failing health (mental and/or physical).

So take time for yourself today, even ten minutes here and there. You’ll be so glad that you did!

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4 Responses to Beware! Burnout Ahead

  1. Katlyn says:

    Yes, yes! I was right there in the section you titled “Face the Fear” – and I probably still am there. But this year my “goal” for writing was to write for fun, so I finished a for fun story I started a few years ago, and am now rewriting an old NaNoWriMo story using the Snowflake Method – just to see how it works and if I like it. Now when I come home from work I am itching to sit down and write for an hour or so before bed! Feeling that freedom to write what I like, and not having to worry about what others like, is making writing enjoyable again!

    • kwpadmin says:

      Katlyn, I’m glad to hear that you’re fighting your way back to enjoying the storytelling process. It makes all the difference, that’s for sure! How ironic that the stories others seem to like the most turn out to be the ones we wrote when we didn’t particularly think about those people at all!

  2. Thank you. It has been difficult since I moved August 015 and lost my husband November 15, 2015. I keep trying, but I feel so worn out. I wish you healing and peace.

    • kwpadmin says:

      You’re welcome! Healing does take time though, doesn’t it? I have to remember that, just because it is slow, doesn’t mean it isn’t coming. And when you’ve been through such big things as yours, I’m sure it takes longer. I’m glad you’re fighting your way back though!

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